All posts tagged: well being

Did self-help become about ourselves?

We are always looking for something or someone to tell us what we need to hear.  If someone tells us the hard truth, we’re pissed off or offended.  Nowadays, we’re always offended.  This person said something we didn’t like.  People don’t want to hear the truth.  They want to hear what makes them feel better or normal.  

She could have been anyone.

Years ago when I first moved to New York City, I had a couple friends I ran with trying out new bars, clubs and just whatever tomfoolery we could get into. When one night we passed a bar that looked really cool, yet it was empty.  My gut feeling told me I had to go in.  Best New York decision I ever made.