Labels create something. They make nothing, something. When we label something it takes on a life of it’s own and creates meaning and shape. Causing unneeded and unnecessary stress.
I was watching a documentary about a family that adopted a little girl and twin boys. The couple had huge hearts and bank accounts by the looks of things. They were lovely people that had so much love to give and wanted to give these kids the life they deserved. They took these kids in and gave them a wonderful home full of love and valuables.
I’ll be the first to admit that I have no idea what I want out of life. I don’t expect anything either. I also don’t think this a bad thing. I want to do what makes me happy and which ever direction that takes me. Well then, so be it. Come to think of it, isn’t not knowing what you want kinda knowing what you want?